[Crying in H Mart] # Chapter 9

 

 

 

 

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[Review previous expression]

• Whenever my friends talk about things that I don't know, I feel they are trying to exclude me. Am I too self-conscious?
  • Whenever my friends talk about things I don't know about, I feel like they are trying to exclude me. Am I being too self-conscious?
• When he drank too much he picked up on my discomfort, but as things stood, he was blind to my apprehension.
  • If he didn't drink too much, he would pick up on my discomfort, but as things stood, he was blind to my apprehension.

 

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[Summarize this chapter]

Enmi was so special to the author, she was just like a second mom. They had to handle their sorrow after she died.

Now, she was overlapping Enmi's death and her mom's prognosis.  Enmi's death affected her to live in the moment, enjoying hanging out with new people and finding new hobbies. 

However, when she was diagnosed, she doubted the effectiveness of therapy because her sister ended up dying after tons of chemotherapies. 

 

=> Enmi was very special to the author, almost like a second mother. They had to cope with their sorrow after her death. At this point, the author was grappling with both Enmi's death and her own mother's prognosis. Enmi's passing inspired her to live in the moment, enjoy meeting new people, and discover new hobbies.

However, upon her own diagnosis, she began to doubt the effectiveness of therapy. This skepticism was fueled by her sister's death despite undergoing numerous chemotherapy treatments.

 

 

Eunmi Emo, the person the author relied on and treated like a second mother, passed away on Valentine’s Day. During the funeral, the author experienced a wave of emotions, and upon seeing Eunmi’s bones, lost her composure and was unable to hold back tears. Following the funeral, her mother changed, endeavoring to engage in as many new activities as possible.

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[Quotes that I liked ]

 

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[New Expression]

 

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